Anonymous asked: Hey! So I met a guy a couple months ago and we've been dating ever since. Nothing serious--just coffee, dinners, movies, etc. Everything was going so well, but then we (finally) hooked up and the next day he just disappeared. He would still text, but not nearly as much and he didn't seem very invested. This week, he told me about some serious personal stuff that he has going on and we had some good, honest conversation, but he is still acting a little weird. Do you think it's worth pursuing? Thx
I think it depends on what this personal stuff is that’s going on with him. If it’s a legitimate reason for his all of a sudden acting differently then give it a little bit of time to see if it passes. Otherwise it seems a little sketchy that he’s acting differently only after you guys hooked up.